How Does He Do It?
Maybe you know a guy who attracts women easily. To you, it doesn’t even look like he’s doing anything.
Meanwhile, you’re swiping right like crazy, going on first dates, putting in all this effort and you’re still not having the experiences you want to have.
What is so different about him? Could you be like that, too?
The Difference is Embodiment
In short it boils down to: why do other men attract women as sexual partners and you don’t?
The “other guys” in your particular world will vary, so it’s hard to know in any specific way what’s so different about them as individuals.
However, embodiment is one clear difference between men that attract sexual partners and those that don’t.
It’s not about being stacked, or in peak physical condition, or about being able to lift heavy things. If those things appeal to you in their own right, rather than just as a means to attract partners, then go for it!
It’s about regularly spending time in your body in a way that you enjoy.
Sex Involves the Body
Sex happens through and with the body. Attracting others on the basis of what’s in your mind is powerful and compelling, but it’s only one part of the story if sex is an activity you want to share with someone.
Embodiment is being really present in your body and in touch with how you experience pleasure.
By practicing embodiment regularly and doing something with your body that you enjoy, this issue sorts itself out on its own.
When you spend more time feeling good in your body, your enjoyment gets communicated outwards in your body language to others.
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