HI! I'M SARAH MARTIN
Through the art of Sexual Craftsmanship, I help software developers achieve sexual confidence.
Sexual confidence will have a profound ripple effect in your life. It’s how you become an extraordinary lover. It’s how you face the uncertainties of dating, sex, and relationships with a deep sense of calm. It’s how you know what to do when faced with rejection or the desire to end a relationship.
Sexual confidence extends even further – it helps you carry your head high wherever you go. Even your boss will notice something different about you.
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WHY SEX COACHING?
TL;DR – I think we’ve all been lied to about sex and that has to change. Also, men deserve better than to be kept in the dark and exploited by PUAs. I want you to have the tools you need for your best sex life.
Sex has always captured my imagination. As a young person, I remember thinking “sex is the skeleton key to the human race.” Sex has the power to open doors to understanding, connection, pleasure, and creation.
At the same, I wondered if it was ever something I would get to experience. I grew up an outsider and spent a lot of my early years isolated and lonely. The Internet helped raise me, just like my parents and my grandparents, and I found solace and community online from age 9.
The great thing about being an outsider, when you stop trying to fit in, is new sorts of possibilities open up to you. For me, the possibility that came was travel and I grabbed it. I’ve travelled alone to over 35 countries, and I’ve studied 11 languages.
Travel’s top lesson is there is no one right way to do anything. Human beings are creative when it comes to surviving planet Earth. What seems set in stone in our culture can, and often is, completely ridiculous in another.
Rules aren’t as fixed as they first appear.
When you get past what seems “obvious” or “natural”, you get the opportunity to decide what you actually desire out of life. I became a sex coach because I decided to follow my desire.
In 2014, I wanted out of my corporate job in London. I took 2 weeks off to think about what I wanted to do with my life. I typed “work in sex” into a search engine and set off to find a way to make this real.
I found Sex Coach U, and studied under Dr. Patti Britton, the original sex coach. In addition to the 300+ hours of study to become a Certified Sex Coach™, I completed several hundred hours of experiential SAR and ASPEX training. Oh, and I completed my Masters degree in 2018. My thesis was about Pick Up Artists.
Anyway, I hung out my shingle in 2016, expecting to coach women. To my surprise, the people that showed up were men. Not just any men, either, but the men that have always been part of my life – men in STEM fields, intellectual, open minded, curious, and creative.
Since then, I’ve worked with hundreds of men, 1:1 and in groups, to build sexual confidence and enjoy dating, sex, and relationships. If you’ve got lots of experience or none, if you want casual sex or a long term relationship, you can create the sex life you want.
I can help you get there.